The most amazing thing is that God decided how you were going to be born regardless of the circumstances surrounding your birth and regardless of who your parents are. God had plan in creating you so it does not matter whether your parents were good, bad or indifferent.
Your birth was not a mistake or a mishap, and your life is not fluke of nature. Your parents may not have planned you, but God did. He was not at all surprised by your birth. In fact, He expected it. Long before you were conceived by your parents, you were conceived in the mind of God. He thought of you first and it is neither fate nor chance. It is neither luck nor coincidence that you are breathing at this moment. You are alive because God wanted to create you (Ps. 138:8)
Be aware that God prescribed every single detail of your body. He deliberately chose your race, the colour of your skin, your hair and every other feature. He customized your body just the way he wanted it. He also determined the natural ability you would possess and the uniqueness of your personality (Psalm 139: 15-16).
God also planned where you would be born and where you would live for His purpose. Your race and nationality are no accident. He left no detail to chance, He planned it all for the purpose. The Bible says, “From one man He made every nation of men, that they should inhabit the whole earth; and he determined the times set for them and the exact places where they should live. God did this so that men would seek Him and perhaps each out for Him and find Him though He is not far from each one of us.” (Acts 17:26-27). Nothing in your life is arbitrary, it’s all for a purpose.
While there are illegitimate parents, there are no illegitimate children. God’s purpose took into account human error and even sin. He never does anything accidentally and He never makes mistake about you. Every plant and animal was planned by God, and every person was designed with a purpose in mind. He designed this planet’s environment so we could live in it. So, you are the focus of his love and most valuable of all His creation. The Bible says, “He chose to give us birth through the word of truth, that we might be a kind of first fruits of all He created” (James 1:18)
Why did God do all these? Why did he bother to go through all the trouble of creating a universe for us? It is because He is a God of love! You were created as a special object of God’s love. God made you so He could love you (Isa. 45:18, 64:3-4). This is a truth to build your life on. If there is no God, we would all be “accidents,” there would be no right or wrong, and no hope beyond your brief years here on earth.
Beloved readers, you are not an accident to your generation or parents, or community full stop thinking otherwise about yourself or try to recreate yourself. You are who you are for a reason, you are just what He wanted to make. The parents you had were the ones he chose, and no matter how you feel, they were custom-designed with God’s plan in mind and they bear the master’s seal. So, you are unique, special, recognized in God’s master plan.